Geena Rocero on Writing Her Best-Selling Memoir: ‘It Was a Reclamation’

Geena Rocero—and her rise to fame—are anything but ordinary. As chronicled in the activist turned author’s groundbreaking memoir Horse Barbie, Rocero rose from pageant queen in the Philippines to top fashion model and trans activist in the US, having publicly come out as transgender in a now viral TED Talk along the way.

As a yearslong wave of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation crested in 2023, Rocero’s decision to tell her story—and her subsequent honor as a Glamour Woman of the Year—couldn’t have been more urgent, or timely. And Rocero’s honor in particular made for quite a “full-circle moment,” as both she and 2022 Glamour Woman of the Year Aurora James (who presented Rocero’s award to her) noted in their moving speeches.

“Glamour was the first American magazine to feature Geena Rocero, out and proud,” James recalled, before highlighting just some of Rocero’s impressive accomplishments. “She has spent the past decade fighting for inclusion and acceptance at the White House, the UN, the World Economic Forum, and in her native country, advocating for everyone to live the life they love.”

Geena Rocero also acknowledged the occasion’s momentous meaning, just after expressing enthusiasm at being the first Filipina Woman of the Year.

“I just love the idea that the very first Filipina Glamour Woman of the Year is a trans woman,” she said. “And as Aurora mentioned, Glamour has always seen me. And being spiritually seen, as you fully are, has been a through line in my story.

hat story, and the ability to tell it as her true self, is what matters most to the author.

“Writing my memoir, Horse Barbie, for me, was a reclamation: a reclamation of the spirit that I had in the Philippines growing up,” she said later in her speech. She then shared who the “true hero” of her story really is: her mother.

“I have to speak the name of my mother, Elizabeth, who, after being separated for five years, gave me the chance and sacrifice so I could be legally recogniz

ed as the woman that I was when I moved to America. Because still in the Philippines, trans people are not legally recognized. We are legally erased,” she said.

“My mother is the hero of my story. My Catholic mother, a devout Catholic mother.”

As for Rocero’s message to trans youth?

“I’ve always said that in this moment as a trans person, I want them to know that you are part of this long history of pre-colonial beauty, power, and resistance, that we’ve always been here. There is light in us and in our truth. It’s so powerful, and that’s why they want to take it away from us,” she said.

“The light is on us, reflects the darker spirit in them. So in every moment, I tell them that if you’re feeling alone I want you to know that there is power in our shared ancestral story, that maybe that story will leave us feeling and through love,” she continued. “Maybe that will give us a sense of possibilities of what will happen in the future and believe with our truth.”

Fortunately, Rocero is helping make that a possibility for countless other trans storytellers. In 2014 she founded, Gender Proud, a media production company that elevates stories about trans and gender-nonconforming people. Rocero yearns to produce work that encourages young trans people amid the current waves of restrictive legislation in the US and in the Philippines, which still lacks legal recognition for trans people.

“I hope the next generation will really see art, how powerful it is, how liberating spiritually it is. Or at least find liberation in that expression,” she said. “It’s given me power, at least in these things that I think about in my head of what I want to do. I want them to heal.”

source: glamour.com